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Shadowy Leaves
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Two previously unlikely friends, Kate (an ExMormon) and Erika (a NeverMormon), deconstruct the quirks and contradictions of the Mormon church with humor and empathy. And cocktails.

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Kate

The ExMo

Kate was born and raised a card-carrying Mormon and stayed committed until the summer she turned 45. Now known as Midlife Exmo on TikTok, she shares her faith deconstruction journey with her “yes, and” philosophy to support others leaving high-demand religions. A former teacher, Kate now embraces life as a curious student—learning, growing, and savoring the occasional coffee or glass of wine along the way.

TikTok: @midlifeexmo

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Erika

The NeverMo

Erika is a NeverMormon that curiously found herself living in Utah several years ago. While she loves the state, the culture has taken some adjustment. When she is not podcasting, she is writing feature-length scripts (her latest placed as a Second-Rounder in the Austin FIlm Festival, as well as placing as a finalist in the FIlmQuest Festival in Provo). She is also pursuing her Master's in Communications at Southern Utah University.

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TikTok: @imerikana

Meet Your Hosts...

WARNING: This podcast is created for adult audiences only. Content warnings include explicit language and sexual references. Audience discretion advised.

NoMos on a Mission

Our mission (pun intended) is to spill the tea (and maybe a little booze) on the quirks and contradictions of the Mormon church from the perspectives of two previously unlikely friends, an ex-Mormon, (Kate), a never-Mormon (Erika), both living in Mormon Central, Utah.

 

Together, and with our guests, we aim to help listeners critically examine their beliefs, laugh at the absurdities, and celebrate the shared humanity of ex-Mormons, non-Mormons, and Mormons alike.

Episodes

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Episode 1: Unlikely Friends Become Besties

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Episode 2: What the Hell is an ExMormon
Doing in a Bar?

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Episode 3: Fun with Polygamy! with The Fresh King Benjamin

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Episode 4: Two Girls, One Cult

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Episode 5: A Very Special Two NoMos

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Episode 7: Women Can Birth by Not Bless with Kaitlyn Shetler

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Episode 9: Both Sides, Now with Astrologer Kambria Davis

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Episode 11: White and Delightsome is Frightsome! with Channel Achenbach

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Episode 6: Keep Sweet, Pray, and NO WAY!

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Episode 8: UNbaptized: And into the Fiery
Pits of Hell!

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Episode 10: If Mormon Were a Color, It Would Be Beige

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Episode 12: General Conference "Glow"

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Episode 13: Shit! The Dildo!

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Episode 14: The (Sex) Life of Bryan with Bryan Keele

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Episode 15: Temple (Do Not) Recommend

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Episode 16: Temple (REALLY Do Not) Recommend

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Episode 17: It's Gay Jesus! with Ryan Barlow

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Episode 18: An ExMo and a NeverMo Walk Into a Pride Festival

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Episode 19: Live at Pride with Author Jonathan Alder

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Episode 21: It's ExMo Lesbo! with Author Chris Davis

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Episode 23: Trans-Gression in Mormonism with Jaime Soulé

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Episode 25: Belief CES-Sation: Examining the CES Letter

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Episode 27: Joseph Smith: Lost in Translation with Rob Tobler

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Episode 29: Rising Through the Flames with Megan Conner

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Episode 31: The Missionary Position: At Least a Book of Mormon Apart

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Episode 33: Can't See the Forest for the Oaks

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Episode 20:  Gay the Pray Away with Samuel Nieves

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Episode 22: Becoming Visible with René Steelman

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Episode 24: Let's Talk About Mental Health, Baby! with René Steelman

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Episode 26: Shining at Sunstone

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Episode 28: Restoration or Racketeering? with Joe Rawlins

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Episode 30: S(ex)communicated! with Natasha Helfer

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Episode 32: My Cousin Vallow: Inside the Lori Vallow Story with Megan Conner

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Episode 34: COVEN-ant With the Goddess

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